Why won't he do things with me that he did with other women We are married but he use to have wild sex with his ex's and he won't do this with me...he use to be naked in front of them but not me?

To answer this question, we need more information. Do you look the same as you did when you were dating? If not, he could be turned off by it. Not to hurt your feelings, but you should try to find other avenues to arouse him if this is the case (dress up, role-playing, etc.).
Are you a push-over in bed? That is to say, are you generally down for anything he's wanting at anytime? If so, he could be turned off by the lack of a challenge. Try sleeping with a few of his friends, men are generally more inclined to want something they think might leave.
Has he gained weight or changed his physical appearance at all? It could be that the reason he's not getting naked in front of you is that he's gained weight, gotten a tattoo, or had an operation on his genitals. Let him know that you support his/her life decisions and that it's ok to share them with you.
What kind of wild sex are we talking about? Threesomes, toys, whips, lit cigarettes? Most men are inclined to experiment sexually in their late teen early twenties, but generally settle down after finding the kind of sex they prefer. He might be turned off by the kind sex acts you're wanting to try, and you should consider the possibility that he might be right. For example, if you're asking him to perform some kind of "two chicks - one cup" routine and he's telling you that there's something wrong with you, he's right.

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