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A narcissist is back and forth with feeling emotion for another. They want to make one feel as if they want attention and then when they get it- they push it away. This is on the account that they do not want to admit or show that they indeed do need someone. It is common for somebody with this condition to love for someone to feel sorry for them- will not admit this or have a hard time admitting this. When it comes time to look at their thinking critically- they will shut down. Counseling could be the answer, but the person must for sure want the help.

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Q: Why would a Narcissist want to hurt the one they love when it is obvious this behavior is self-defeating and the spouse will eventually leave them and their abusive behavior behind?
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