Why would a married man spend lots of time with you and tell you he loves you and wants you and then just go back to his life with the wife and do men even care what they are doing to women?

Answer 1

Do you ever care what you are doing to the wife is the question! Cheating with a married man who has a wife and possibly children is plain wrong and I think you know that. By going with a married man you are hurting his wife and possibly childern. I can't understand why young women think they are the one and only in these men's lives and will win him over and snag him into marriage. It seldom happens. If he cheated on her, he'll soon grow tired of you and cheat on you too. Most young women are flattered an older man may have the hots for them, but the truth of the matter is these men are always selfish and aren't thinking of your feelings one bit. If what I say isn't true, then why is he hurting his wife? Do you think she honestly deserves this treatment? Don't buy in to the garbage he may tell you about "she doesn't understand me", "she's lazy", etc., because those are usually lies and ones to win you over. What are you going to get out of this? I'll tell you ... you'll get used, you'll lose your dignity and end up looking like a fool. If young women like you pick up these types of men and listen to the lies they are telling you then you have no one to blame but yourself. There are lots of single guys out there, so you have to ask yourself why you feel you need a married man. If you were smart you'd dump this guy really quick!

== == I think most women are in this situation for material reasons. Married men already have great experience with how to treat a woman and spoil her nicely. She sees them therefore as being far better as potential suitors than all the available single guys out there because they haven't yet stood the test of marriage. Indeed I think its very selfish for a girl to date a married man and she has but herself to blame. My guess is she's not looking for a permanent longlasting relationaship but a temporary fling she gets a kick out of.

Otherwise why else would she do that when there are a lot of single guys out there that are looking for the one true love of their lives and are willing to commit to one woman?