The question appears to be self-contradictory. If he wants you to stay, he hasn't broken up with you. If he has broken up with you, then he doesn't want you to stay. He cannot both break up with you and also want you to stay.
To hurt you and to keep your attention, play mind games, that's what they do, and maybe to do the same with the new girlfriend to drive you both nuts!
because she might like you
Probably not, they would fight over mirror time. ;)
Because these types enjoy other's pain
Perhaps he (or she) has overcome his fear of commitment. And perhaps he has found the woman that he feels is genuinely right for him.
No a narcissist will always be a narcissist. Don't get involved, you are free now. Be thankful you have escaped the worse time in your life and can move on. the narcissist wil try to make it look and sound like he is so much better to her, because that will further his need to make you feel like you don't matter, if you did, you would have treated you well, too. in reality, he is treating her just as bad as he did you, and probably rubs you in her face, too!
no. a sadist would want to hurt you. a narcissist would want to be hurt.
Yeah!
yes and he wouldn't care. sorry but hes moved on and so should you. don't lower yourself by fighting another woman. I think you should go to other meetings for say a month and you will feel better. I think this would feed his ego, but it certainly wouldn't gain his respect. You deserve better.
Break the tradition, i would.
She wouldn't. That is not a reaction that a narcissist would have.
The same way she would come on to a man.
Why would ANYONE want to be with a narcissist? A codependent would be about the only type of personality that could tolerate being with a narcissist, and they will pay a terrible price. Dump the narcissist and get some help with the codependency. ACOA, CODA, Al-anon and Nar-anon are as close as your telephone.