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Give up. Achieve closure. He doesn't deserve more than what you have already given him.
The word "love" is understood by the narcissist to mean "dependence", "neediness", "ability to provide narcissistic supply", "becoming the narcissist's extension and property".
In these - distorted and sick - senses of the word, all narcissists love to be loved...
A post-mortem of a relationship conducted with a narcissist is very frustrating because it never achieves closure. The narcissist is interested exclusively in allocating blame and generating guilt - not in progressing, developing, atoning, soothing, or concluding anything.
Such exercises in futility are best avoided.
Narcissistic psychopaths have no friends, or lovers, or spouses, or children, or family - they have only objects to be manipulated.
Narcissists have no problem perceiving ideas (many narcissists are intellectually gifted). But they do have a problem perceiving other people's ability to conceive of ideas, to have their own needs, emotions, and preference. Wouldn't you be startled if your television set suddenly informed you that it would rather not work on a Sunday? Or if your vacuum cleaner wanted to befriend you?
To narcissists, other people are instruments, tools, sources - in short: objects. Objects are not supposed to have opinions or to make independent choices and decisions - especially if they don't comply with the narcissist's worldview or plans, or if they do not cater to his needs.
No! True emotional acceptance means the person must possess normal human emotions such as empathy. Without this emotional base acceptance as you would like it is IMPOSSIBLE.
The time for the father to have developed a healthy emotional system is long gone, i.e. infancy and early childhood.
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Do narcissists ever date someone who offers no narcissistic supply?
No.
How does a father of a narcissist not enable?
If your child is a boy and you are the father theres a good chance he got his narcissism from you unless there was some other arrangment. Dont use psychology on your son, just try to accept him for who he is.
Are there different severities of narcissism?
I am not a psychologist, just an observer to the decades of narcissistic behavior in a bad narcissistic father. From everything I have observed and also studied up on and read, narcissism does seem to get worse with advancing age. At 95, I see that there is little left in NDad EXCEPT the narcissistic agenda.
Can you really ever respect a Narcissistic parent or boss?
I can respect their valued suggestion which helps me to grow up as a good citizen and successful employee to listen the narcissistic advices. But We have to remember that"excess of any thing is bad". I can never respect a parent or boss who all the time use to do advice and never will accept my own identity. In such a case I will never respect such a narcissistic parent or boss. Advices and experiences help to achieve goal but not in excessive manner. I would like to learn with my own experiences too.
Can a narcissistic father put life long violent behavior on hold for the kids?
A narcissistic father cannot put a life long violent behaviour on hold for the kids because for him HE is the center of the universe and his wife and kids are only there to serve him, his needs, without him feeling any emphatie for them.
Why doesn't your narcissistic spouse ever touch your breasts?
Most Ns have some sort of fixation. That must be his.
What is the opposite of narcissistic?
Modest is the usual opposite of narcissistic.
Is there a mental disorder in which a person refuses to accept blame for their mistakes?
Possibly narcissistic personality disorder. Possibly sociopathic personality disorder.
Is narcissisim curable?
AnswerEveryone has narcissistic traits, and this is not always a bad thing. However, a small proportion of the population suffer from disorders such as NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). This is, as the name suggests, when the narcissistic trait is inflated and takes up a large amount of a person's personality. NPD, through therapy, can be cured, although it may be difficult: narcissists are generally people unlikely to accept that there is anything wrong with them - I know from experience.
Now that your narcissistic father has died why do you grieve and hurt so much?
You grieve because the fantasy of having a loving relationship is truly gone.
What does 99.24 mean in a paternity test?
Congratulations, It means that you are the father of the child. DNA is never 100% the most that you will ever see is 99.99999999. I have seen the Court accept 95% as paternity. In my sons case it was 97.9999 with the child and Father only the Mother was not present.
What is a narcissistic wind?
i am trying to find out what narcissistic winds mean?
