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That's really impossible to answer. Does absence make the heart grow fonder, or is it a case of "out of sight, out of mind"? Who knows? I suppose it really depends upon the terms of the breakup and who initiated it.
If the two of you still have feelings for each other but decided to end the relationship anyway, then it is advisable to sever all contact for a pre-determined amount of time. No, phone calls, e-mail, IMs. Nothing during the cooling-off period. After that time -- at least a few months -- if the two of you realize you can't be happy without the other, then great. If not -- if you become a distant memory in her mind -- then you'll just have to move on.
If, however, she broke off the relationship with you, then trying to maintain contact might, at the very least, annoy her and, at the very worst, even be construed as harassment or even stalking. So act carefully.
Other farmers have said:
- There is not enough information here for a reliable answer. If the relationship is over, and there are no children involved, cutting all contact may be a smart move regardless of her reaction. You should move on, and not worry about her.
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I'll tell you my situation. I initiated to break up with my first true love. He agreed and thought it would be best to..I hurt him badly and to top it off, I ignored him for over a year (to this day)..We still don't talk to this day. I have attempted to call him a couple of times but he was never home so I gave up. I usually don't think about him BUT there are some nights and some songs that remind me of him..those are the nights I cry. He doesn't have a clue about any of this. But God knows I miss him!!
First answer by Jesuisunbonbon. Last edit by Demirci. Contributor trust: 239 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 30 [recommend question]
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