There are only two choices here. One is to buy it from the estate for the fair market value. The other is to sell it and split the money. The other beneficiaries don't get a choice in the matter.
Unless you were given the authority in the Will to sell the real estate at your own discretion then you need a court judgment allowing the sale. You and your two brothers are assumed to have inherited equal shares in the property. You need a court order to force the sale of their interests. You can try to petition the probate court to review the matter and issue a ruling. However, the court may require you to file a separate lawsuit known as a partition.
When land is under co-ownership of two or more people who cannot agree on what to do with the land, any owner can file a Petition to Partition in the appropriate court. The court has the power to order a sale. The court would appoint a commissioner to sell the property. The commissioner would hire a real estate company to market the property. There would be lawyer's fees, court costs, commissioner's fees and of course, the agent's commission. Those costs add up quickly. The net proceeds are divided equally after those costs and expenses of the partition have been deducted from the proceeds of the sale.
Since the costs of filing a Petition to Partition are high your brothers may be receptive to selling their interests once they know that you can ask the court to sell the property. They may also be receptive to a fair offer on your part since you now know the costs would be high to force a sale. You didn't mention the type of appraisal you have referred to in your question. Some appraisals are reported on the low end for probate inventory purposes. You need an independent fair market appraisal on which to base your offer. If you have further questions you should consult with an attorney who specializes in real estate law.
Whomever applies to the court to replace him.
As long as the will was properly drafted and is allowed by the court the executor and the beneficiary can be the same person.
Then someone else is and must follow the wishes of the deceased.
Executors do have certain powers/abilities. The naming of an executor for my mothers will almost tore our family up. A brother-in-law was asking the lawyer about the 15% rule in KY. Needless to say, my sister was not named executor. Given my experience, I would say you wouldn't have to pay, but if your siblings (or other beneficiaries) were aware of the judgement, they could sue.
so they can act different
The executor has no power while the person is living. Until they are appointed by the court, they have no power.
I have been the executor of my mothers money, I pay her nursing home bills with it, she just died and i have 200,000 dollars left, do I have to pay tax on that money.
Yes, she can petition the court to be the sole executor. If there is conflict, the court may very well appoint a third party, a bank or attorney, without a vested interest in the estate. This typically costs the estate money in the form of compensation to the executor.
I am a joint executor of a property that has been left to me and my sister in our mothers will. Are we qualified to rent out this property on lease, without the need to transfer ownership.
The executor is capable of doing so. As long as it is obvious that all the debts can be resolved, the executor can make distributions.
You can go to the judge or a lawyer and ask to be co executor or to require that the estate be settled. Wills and trusts can be broken, you just have to consult the right person.
You are not personally responsible for them, they will be paid from her estate. It is your responsibility to see that is done.