You fell weak once again but this time he wants you to cut off ties with someone he abused before you Is it you or him because he says that if you didn't he didn't want to have anything to do with you?

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If this is not the case, you may have found a bug in the software. Please report this to an administrator, making note of the URL. Hi hon This is the first class signs of mental abuse and will certainly lead into physical abuse if you don't run as fast and as far as you can from this guy. I as well as others on this board have left posts regarding how abusers work and I hope you take the time to read some of those posts. Abusers are about control! Actually, abusers are weak inside, and they have either grown up in an environment of abuse, or some can just be mean to the bone no matter how they grew up. In order for them to survive they need to control what is close to them because they can't control society or the world. They know they can't get away with their behavior out there, so they suppress it, but most people, especially in the workplace often don't like the personality of that person, but don't realize they are abusive in nature. This even fuels the fires of an abuser and when he gets home he takes it out on his girlfriend, wife or even his kids. Then there are the 5% of abusers that can charm the pants off of people and they are the last person you would think was abusive. Abusers prey on women with low self confidence or little experience with men or life in general. The first thing they will do is try to isolate you from EVERYONE! Family and friends alike. That's what he is doing to you now. If you think it's romantic and you think he loves you so much because he just wants you all to himself you had better wake up and smell the coffee and realize it isn't love, but collecting possessions! You happen to be one of them. I have no idea what is wrong with you when you know this guy is already abusive and is now trying to segregate you away from your friend. ALL THE SIGNS ARE THERE! You are not weak, but very strong! I know you must feel scared inside and think you love this person, but love isn't about control and fear or threats and slapping or degrading someone . Love is gentle, considerate, honest, loyal and caring. This man is none of those things! Take that friend of yours and run fast and hard! There is help at the Women's Abuse Centers in your area, or if you don't know where it is go to your local Mental Health and they will lead you on the right path to finding one. Also, they will protect you, give you any legal counsel you need, plus they will help with you seeing a therapist. You need to learn tools so you don't get fooled into another abusive relationship. Please hon, get away from him and seek help. Don't become a statistic! Good luck Marcy