You just broke up with your boyfriend cause he's disrespects me and he's abusive.I still love him and recently stop answering his calls.why is he blowing up my cell phone?

Answer 1

You already answered your own question. You may love him, but someone who is abusive and disrespects you certainly doesnt love you. Its about control, he knows he has no power over you now which is why he is so angry. Switch off your phone and stay with friend, go out and have fun, you deserve it. Don't waste your love on someone who cannot return it, you deserve better. Girlfriend, get out and meet a real man that will respect and love you for the beautiful woman you are. Dont let some loser treat you badly. I can understand still caring for him because you gave him your heart but you deserve better, change phone numbers and if you see him let him know that you have moved on with your life and suggest he do the same.