You told your girlfriend that you love her and you do but she said that she couldn't honestly say it back so what do you do now?

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Just keep doing what you have done minus the i love you. she now knows you do but she is still unsure. just give her time and she may soon say it back. if later on you really trulley do live her say it again. if she still won't say it just keep waiting. only time can tell if she feels the same way. Usually girls won't say I love because most guys only say it to get down their pants. Just waiting for her to say it shows you really do love her. ==

Just keep going. Don't act any different because of how she feels. She will say it when she's comfortable with it. Don't hate her because she can't or hasn't. If she didn't have some kind of love for you, even the tiniest bit, she wouldn't be with you. She'll say it when its right for her, just give her and it time. ;]

I know the feeling. Listen if you do not want to get hurt by this girl later on down the road, you know what you must do. How long have you been with her? If its been more than half a year, that is the determining sign that you are not ment to be. By this time in the relationship, she ought to know enough about you to make a decision on the matter. She did. She told you that she could not "honestly" say it back. How old are you? Is this your first girlfriend? Give it some time if it hasn't been at least six months. Love for another is a tremendous step in life. Can you see yourself marrying her? If not...what's the point?

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My boyfriend said it to me before I was comfortable saying it back; we had only been dating about 3 months. I agree with the above post; if you've been dating for a short time don't worry about it, but if it's a long-term serious relationship she may just not be in the same place you are. In my situation, at first I just said 'thank you' because I really meant that. After about a month or two I could honestly tell him I loved him. I also agree with the first person's post. :)

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dude i had this problem and what you do is

1ask her if she wants to go out with you

2 if she said no then that is what happend to me you break up but dont dump her (if you know what i mean)

3 if she said yes well you know whay to do Though temptation may lead you to believe that there is nothing left in the relationship, keep holding on. As a teen myself, I know how hard it is to be let down. Often times i think there is no point in trying to get girls, but when I am finally with the girl I like, my whole deamenor changes. It's easy to try and forget about her and to sink into a stage of depression, but if you truly like this girl, you will keep on trying to connect with her. Be yourself, but most importantly, be confident. Smile and act like you normally would. Forget about her saying she doesn't know if she loves you. She's dating you, so shes obviously trying. Forget about ever telling her, stay true to your character.