How can you tell if your husband is cheating on you?

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There are some signs that may appear when a man cheats:

1. when his sexual behavior and habits starts to change.
2.when he starts paying extra attention to his body-splashing on extra cologne/working out.
3.hiding the cell phone or putting it on vibrate/sleeping with it.
4. check his cell phone or cell phone bill, same unfamiliar phone number popping up.
5.unexplained absences.
-not coming home on time
- not being where he is suppose to be, e.g work/gym/with friends
6.phone call hang ups.
7.items in the car/trunk that's not related to you or him.
8.bathing excessively.
9.changing in dress appearances.
10.unexplained money loss.

One point that is missing and it is the one that I think gives the unfaithful husband away. When he begins to be extra kind and nice, shower an unusual amount of affection on you and just in general act more gentlemanly than usual for an extended period of time, then it is time to confront him. All his behaviour is an atonement for the guilt building up inside.
or... if he spends most of his time away from the house or away from you and stays out late or if he does not pay much attention to you if he comes home drunk then you know something is up if your husband changes his behavior from rude to nice or nice to rude then something is wrong you might want to ask him what is going on or you can follow him to where he is going and watch him and if another girl comes then you can go up to him and say i will see you later then go home and wait for him to come and if he does not come then you might as well get a divorce and or try to work things out with your spouse.

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First answer by Robsidious. Last edit by Monica Lewandowski. Contributor trust: 0 [recommend contributorrecommended]. Question popularity: 242 [recommend question].